Thanksgiving travel rule 2: Never drive the day before Thanksgiving

We woke up in Ashland, Ore., refreshed and ready to hit the road. After enjoying a complimentary breakfast at our hotel, the Best Western Windsor Inn, we left for Portland at 10 a.m. We had promised some friends—Yuko and Jeff and their kids Isao and Tomo—who lived in the city that we'd arrive at their house between 3 p.m. and 4 p.m. With Portland being a 5 hour drive from Ashland, we were right on track.

The southern Oregon stretch of I-5 is lovely and scenic. It winds through forests, crosses rivers, and passes through small farm towns: Talent, Hugo, Sunny Valley, Azalea, Riddle. We all thoroughly enjoyed the drive—until we hit Eugene, 100 miles outside of Portland, where the traffic came to a dead stop. I stood up on the car seats and stuck my head through the sunroof, convinced that there must be accident ahead. No, just endless cars inching along the highway. Nearly every other car seemed to have a University of Oregon or Oregon State bumper sticker; we were in the midst of the "going home from college" rush-hour traffic.

My husband, Anthony, and I started to dig into one another.

"Why did you insist on working out at the hotel gym this morning?" I scolded him. "If we left an hour earlier we never would have hit this traffic!"

"Why did you insist on not setting an alarm so we woke up earlier?" he countered.

We pulled off to get some gas. As the attendant was filling our tank, Anthony asked, "Why is there all this traffic? Is this typical?"

The guy reminded us that it was the day before Thanksgiving. "This is the busiest driving day of the year," he said. "There's always lots of traffic."

"How long do you think it will take us to get to Portland?"

"I'm not even going to try to answer that question..."

We stopped arguing, came to terms with our fate, and called our friends to say that we would be late. We also decided that the next time we took a Thanksgiving road-trip we would leave a day earlier.

We finally reached Portland at 6 p.m.--that's three hours later than planned. We arrived at Yuko and Jeff's house in east Portland, tired and stressed. But once we stepped inside their cozy craftsman bungalow, warm from a blaze in the fireplace, we relaxed. They greeted us with hot sake and a Japanese soup filled with fresh fish and vegetables. The kids roasted marshmallows in the fireplace and watched the Nutcracker on TV. And then Yuko played the piano and we all sang holiday songs. Yuko's daughter, Tomo, taught us the lyrics to a song about a turkey named Albuquerque, sung to the tune of "Clementine."

Albuquerque is a turkey
And he's feathered and he's fine
And he wobbles and he gobbles
and he's absolutely mine.
He's the best pet that you can get..
Better than a dog or cat.
He's my Albuquerque turkey
And I'm awfully proud of that.
He once told me, very frankly
he preferred to be my pet,
not the main course at my dinner,
and I told him not to fret.
And my Albuquerque turkey
is so happy in his bed,
'Cause for our Thanksgiving dinner...
We had egg foo yong instead.

Those few hours with our friends were memorable and well worth the drive. This is why we all hop in our cars and on planes over the Thanksgiving holiday. It's to spend time with friends and family.
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Thanksgiving travel rule 1: Never leave at rush hour

We planned to leave our home in San Francisco for our family road trip to Seattle at 2 p.m. on Tuesday. But of course, everything took longer—the packing, the cleaning, the car tuneup—than expected. We didn’t actually have the car packed and the kids loaded until 6 p.m.

“This is crazy. It’s rush hour. Let’s eat dinner in the city and then leave later to skip the traffic,” my husband pleaded.

“No! Let’s just get going. The traffic won’t be that bad.” I was ready and eager to get going. We were driving all the way to Ashland, Ore., that night—five and a half hours from San Francisco—and I didn’t want to be on the road late at night.

I was wrong. It took us one hour to travel 11 miles from our home in San Francisco to Berkeley, just across the bay.

As we exited out of the traffic to grab dinner at the Mexican restaurant Picante, my 4-year-old son, Dante, asked, “Are we in Ashland? Are we going to the Best Western hotel?”

I didn’t have the heart to tell him that we still had 5 hours and 20 minutes ahead us and probably more like seven hours with the traffic.

At 2 a.m. we rolled into the Best Western Windsor Inn in Ashland.

Welcome! You're the last ones to check in. So glad you made it!" the front-desk clerk said.

Rule 1: Never drive at rush hour on the week of Thanksgiving, unless you want to sit in traffic.
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Thanksgiving road-trip: SF to Harstine Is.

Steve Martin and John Candy taught us in the 1987 movie Planes, Trains, and Automobiles that Thanksgiving travel isn’t easy. Martin plays a tightly wound advertising exec, Neal Page, who is on a business trip in New York and trying to get home to his family in Chicago. He ends up traveling with Candy, who plays shower curtain ring salesman Del Griffith, when their plane is diverted to Wichita, Kansas, due to a blizzard in Chicago. A trip that should have taken an hour and forty-five minutes turns into a three-day error-prone journey. But in the end their pain and persistence pays off when they gather with Martin’s family for a memorable meal.

I approached our Thanksgiving road trip with this film in mind. I knew that the 22-hour drive from our house in San Francisco to my aunt and uncle’s house on Harstine Island on Washington's Puget Sound wasn’t going to be easy.

First of all, my 5-year-old daughter made it very clear that she didn't want to go on a road trip: "Why do we have to drive again? Why can't we fly? Driving is so boring!"

My husband wasn't to keen about the trip either: "The timing of this trip couldn't be worse. I'm busy at work. I still have to bill 40 hours this week so you need to find time for me to work on the trip."

I also had to work so I knew we would be trading off at the wheel so we could log some hours on our laptops and Blackberries in the passenger seat. And then there was the sheer fact that we were driving at Thanksgiving, the busiest travel time of the year.

"You know that there will be lots of traffic," my husband told me.

"There's not going to be traffic. Don't worry about it. We'll be out in rural areas most of the time. No traffic there," I replied.

Famous last words.
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Ask Amy: Cleaning baby bottles in Mexico

Question: I was digging around on the Internet for information on traveling to Mexico with an infant and came across your September 9, 2008, entry. I was curious to know if you have any advice for cleaning baby bottles while in Mexico. We are planning to use bottled water for formula, but I don't know if I need to wash the bottles with bottled water as well. We won't have access to a microwave to boil water or to use sterilizing bags so I'm trying to figure out what is best to do. My son is 3 months old and we are still wondering with all of the gear and supplies we have to bring along if we are insane for traveling to Mexico with him . . . the things you do for family (my sister-in-law is getting married there). Your entry has given me some confidence, so thanks!
—Larissa

Answer: First off, take a deep breath and relax. You're going to have a great time in Mexico and your baby will be fine. Just like you, I was worried about traveling there with my 1-year-old, but everything worked out and we had a great trip. I did use bottled water to wash the baby bottles. Our hotel said that the water from the faucet was filtered and safe to drink but I wanted to be extra careful. Be sure to buy the water from an established supermarket or the hotel--rather than from a small stand on the street. Sometimes these small stands refill used bottles. Before you go, be sure to check in with your child's pediatrician who might have tips on how to keep your baby safe and healthy while you're traveling. Have fun!
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Use frequent-flier miles in a jiffy

When's the last time you tried to use your frequent-flier miles to book a flight? Unless you were reserving more than six months ahead, you probably struggled to come up with a seat. But the frequent-flier seats are out there and a new service offered by Yapta.com will alert you when they become available. Ever since launching in 2006, Yapta has notified travelers when airfares drop and now the site will send out an email when frequent flier miles can be used to book a flight.

"One of the biggest frustrations for frequent travelers is not knowing when they can actually redeem their miles to book an award seat," says Tom Romary, president & CEO of Yapta. "Yapta now alerts travelers via email when an award seat is available, so they don't miss out on an opportunity to use their hard-earned miles. As a personal travel assistant, Yapta enables travelers to choose the exact flights they want to take and - in addition to checking prices - tracks daily the availability of award seat inventory for them."

Here's how it works: You use Yapta to plan a trip and find the flights that you're interested in taking. From the search results you can choose to track award tickets and then Yapta will send you an email when an award seat becomes available.
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How to haul wine home

You spent the afternoon wine-tasting and discovered an amazing zin. You want to bring a case home--but how do you do it? The rules and regulations for transporting a case from one state to another are far more complex than the wine itself, but these tips should help you bring a bottle home.

Check the state laws. States wine shipping regulations vary so check a reliable source on the legality of direct shipping to your state before wine from another state. You can get up-to-date information on reciprocal and nonreciprocal states from Free the Grapes, a coalition of wine lovers, wineries and retailers with a mission to help wine consumers get the wines of their choice, at freethegrapes.org.

Talk to the winery. The winery might be able to ship the wine for you—especially if you’re looking to mail it to a reciprocal state. Don’t trust a winery that says they can send your bottles to a nonreciprocal state. If they run into trouble, you lose your wine.

Find a local shipping company. If you have to find a shipping company, you need to know that it’s illegal to box your own bottles and send it to a nonreciprocal states. If you’re mailing to a reciprocal state, make sure the packaging is adequate. For example FedEx requires that you package your bottles in molded polystyrene or die-cut corrugated units; bubble wrap, peanuts, and wadded paper are unacceptable.

Don’t carry it on the plane. Because of the federal government’s restrictions for carrying liquids onto planes, don’t even think of stuffing a bottle into your carry-on. But you can consider purchasing an FAA-approved travel wine safe that will allow you to check your bottles along with your luggage. These run $250 to $400; available at portlandwinegear.com, skymall.com, and wineenthusiast.com. Just be sure to contact your airline carrier and check on state laws before showing up at the airport with a safe full of wine.

Buy wine at home. Skip the hassle and ask the winery if you can pick up a bottle at a store in your state.
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Disney theme parks offer wait times by cell phone

So let's say you're at Disneyland with the family and you just got off the Matterhorn. The kids scream, "Space Mountain!" and you're game but not if you have to wait in another two-hour line. What do you do? Beginning next year, you'll be able to pick up your phone to determine the wait time at the popular roller-coaster, according to an article in today's USA Today.

The Walt Disney Co. and Verizon Wireless announced Wednesday that they have reached a multiyear deal to provide theme park information and extras to Verizon customers who download a special application.
Beginning next year, visitors to Disneyland and Florida's Walt Disney World will be able to use their Verizon phones to locate shows, costumed characters and restaurants; find wait times for rides, play mobile games and receive messages from Disney characters.
Because cellphone technology pinpoints a device's location, users can tell how far away they are from Mickey Mouse, for example.
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'Family lanes' take off at airports

Have you ever tried to get your family through an airport security checkpoint? While you're removing the shoes from your squirming toddler, shoving the car seat through the X-ray machine, and carefully lifting your sleeping baby from the stroller, the guy behind you screams "Hurry up!"

The Transportation Security Administration recognizes that families move through security at a slower pace and it's expanding its 'family lanes' program to every airport security checkpoint in America. Assistants will be on hand to help families and travelers with special needs move through security. At the 45 largest airports, special scanners will be available to screen large bottles of "medically necessary" liquids such as infant formula and contact-lens solution.

The family lanes, currently available at only 48 airports, will be in place at every large and midsize airport by Thursday, November 20, just in time for the busy holiday travel period, and they will remain permanently.
How do you manage to get through airport security with kids?
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Amazing product for packing light

These days packing light and stuffing everything into one bag is crucial since all major airlines are charging for checking in luggage. Dr. Bronner's Magic 18-in-One Soap is a product that takes up little space in your bag (try a 2 oz. bottle for $2.49) and promises 18 different uses: toothpaste, shampoo, laundry detergent, mouth wash, body wash, shaving cream, bubble bath, and the list goes on. The 60-year-old company makes it soaps with a simple, and short list of ingredients: organic extra virgin coconut, olive, jojoba and hemp oils.

What's more the soap is completely biodegradable and vegetable-based, made with certified fair trade and organic oils, and packaged in 100 percent post-consumer recycled bottles.
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How to carry it all on

Last week the world's largest airline announced that it's charging for checked bags. Delta is the last major carrier to do so. You'll pay $15 for the first piece of luggage, and $25 for the second. Now that the airlines are hitting passengers with these fees, more people will be rolling carry-ons onto the plane. But this requires packing light. Here are some tips on how to squeeze everything you need for three days or three weeks into just one bag.

Consult a packing list. The Internet is full of lists geared to packing light. Travel guru and guidebook author Rick Steves's is especially useful; to find it, click here.

Bring only one pair of shoes. This is one area where travelers tend to overdo it. You don't need a pair of shoes for every outfit. Instead bring only one pair of comfortable shoes that goes with everything. An exception to this rule is when you're traveling to the tropics where you'll want a pair of sandals.

Dress in black and blues. Dark colors don't show wrinkles or stains. You can always have cothing dry cleaned through the hotel, wash it in the sink, or ask if the hotel has a washer and dryer for guests.

Don't pack for the worst case scenario. Risk shivering for a day rather than taking a heavy coat. If you get hit with unexpectedly cold weather, you can simply buy yourself a new jacket. Consult weather reports the night before you leave to help you decide what to bring. And if you are heading for a place with cold weather, wear your jacket on the plane.

Use the hotel shampoo. You can limit toiletries by using those provided by your hotel. Even most budget hotels provide a small bottle of shampoo and hand lotion. But you'll definitely need to bring some essentials, which might include toothpaste, toothbrush, deodorant, sunscreen, and anything else that you use on a daily basis. Consider a vacation from cosmetics or just bring a lipstick and mascara.

Check the TSA Web site. The Transporation Security Administration has all sorts of rules for what you can bring onto the plane. For example, all liquids, gels, and aerosols must be in three-ounce or smaller container and then placed in a single, quart-size, zip-top, clear plastic bag. For more info, visit tsa.gov.

Buy the right bag. Check the airlines' weight and size restrictions for carry-ons before purchasing a bag. The formula used to find the maximum size carry-on bag for most airlines is 45 inches linear: length plus width plus depth. The bags pictured above are from Flight 001, a travel gear Web site. Another great resource is eBags.

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Going, going, gone...

Every year more than 50,000 animal species become extinct, 60,000 square miles of rainforests are lost, and countless historical sites are destroyed. Whether it’s the collapse of a rock formation in Utah's Arches National Park or the last Yankee’s game played at New York’s historic Yankee Stadium, we are reminded on a daily basis of the urgency to visit some of our world’s most beloved natural and cultural destinations.

Frommer’s new book 500 Places to See Before They Disapear ($19.99) is a guide to these precious and fragile sites that are disappearing at an astonishing rate. This book not only gives you an indication of how much of the world we take for granted, but also sheds some light on why natural habitats are disappearing and in some cases, what you can do to prevent it.

Here are some of the places included in the book:

Fraser Island, Australia—an island entirely of sand, threatened by rising sea levels.

Grove of Osun-Osogbo, Nigeria—the last remains of a primeval forest, held sacred in Yorubo worship.

Fenway Park, Boston—one of the last original ballparks and a national icon.

Willow Creek Preserve, Oregon—where you’ll find the nearly extinct Fender’s blue butterflies.

Teotichuacàn, Mexico—at one time the largest city in the world, now nearly inhabitable because of air pollution (the name means “Place Where Gods Were Born”).

Are there any destinations you'd like to see before they're gone?
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Ask Amy: Local grinds in Honolulu

Question: My wife and I are vacationing in Waikiki for a week this winter. Where should we eat? We'd especially like some tips on local spots serving fresh fish. Also, we're on a budget.
—Donald, Portland, Ore.

Answer: If you love fish, then you're traveling to the right place as Waikiki is full of places dishing up seafood. Here are three must-try places:

At Nico's at Pier 38, the grilled ono may come in a Styrofoam container but it's the sweetest and moistest fish you'll ever eat for less than $10. Go on the weekend when there's live music, or for breakfast (fish and eggs, mmm...).

The Diamond Head Market and Grill specializes in charbroiled entrées; the salmon is served with a tasty miso-ginger sauce and the ahi steak comes on a roll slathered in wasabi aioli. Seating is limited to outdoor picnic tables.

Rumor is that after the fancy restaurants in Waikiki close, the chefs head for downtown Honolulu to the Side Street Inn for barbecued ribs slathered in lilkoi sauce and pesto-crusted ahi.
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Meet Chris Lesnewski



Chris Lesnewski is just the sort of guy you want to meet when you go to check into a hotel. The front-desk clerk at the historic Best Western Independence Park Hotel in Old Town Philadelphia, Chris is charming, sincere, and funny. And he'll bend over backward to help out his guests.
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San Francisco's new Carriage Inn

There's a new Best Western hotel just a few miles from my condo in San Francisco that's definitely worth mentioning. The 48-room Carriage Inn tips a hat to San Francisco’s well-known luminaries and eccentrics—both the naughty and the nice ones. Each guestroom is named after one of these unconventional legends. For example, there's the Lili Coit room named for an eccentric woman who was a volunteer firefighter, avid gambler, and cigar smoker in the early 1900s when it was highly unusual for a female to be fighting fires. [She's best known for building the city's famed Coit Tower.] Another room is named for the Brown Twins, San Francisco icons who are identical twins and dress in the exact same outfits, from the socks to earrings, and parade around the city's Union Square neighborhood. In each room, you'll find a bio telling the story behind its namesake. The hotel decor is bohemian with unique antique furnishings--though you'll find plenty of modern amenities as each room is equipped with a flat-screen TV, iPod docking stations, wireless Internet, and mini-fridges. And you can't beat the location, just five blocks from Union Square. Next time my husband and I need to get away from the kids, I think we'll be checking into the Carriage Inn.
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Planning an affordable ski trip

You know whose house you're going to for Thanksgiving. You have your flight for Christmas and a hotel for New Year's Eve. Your winter travel plans are set. Well, sort of. Typically you also make it to the mountains for a snowy vacation. But this year, you're holding off uncertain if you can afford it? With some careful planning, you probably can. Here are a few tips to help make it happen:

Go in the off season. The holidays are going to be the busiest and most expensive time. If you're on a budget don't even considering visiting a ski resort area between December 25 and January 2. The weeks of the Martin Luther King, Jr., holiday and Presidents' Day are other dates to avoid. The best time for winter travel is in the dead of winter, after New Year's and before Presidents' Day. Kids are in school, and people are staying home because their wallets are empty after the holidays. Hotel rates during this hidden low season can be as much as 20 percent less than during the peak time. Another option: March, which can be a beautiful time to be in the snow, especially if you get a spring storm.

Opt for low-key ski resorts. Food, lodging, lift tickets, everything is going to be pricier at a ritzy ski resort. Instead check out of some of the more laid-back ones such as Colorado's Copper Mountain, Utah's Brian Head, Idaho's Schweitzer Mountain Resort, New Mexico's Taos Ski Valley, British Columbia's Fernie, and Vermont's Ludlow.

Save on lift tickets. Before you book your vacation, check on the price of lift tickets, which can cost up to $90 for an adult these days. This might determine where you want to go. You can call the resort's toll-free number ask if local grocery stores or ski rental shops sell discounted lift tickets for their resort. Also you can often save by buying tickets online. Another option: check the ski association's Web site for the state you plan to visit and you'll find all sorts of deals. For example, on the Colorado Ski Country USA Web site you can order a free card that will allow you to save at nine of the state's resorts (some of these savings include free ski days) and you can apply for free lift tickets for kids in fifth and sixth grade. The Utah Ski Association site offers the same deal for fifth and sixth graders.

Photo credit: Colorado Ski Country
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Cool cases for kids

Want your kids to carry their own bags when you're traveling? Then get them a cool suitcase. Here are four stylish suitcases that any child will love. They make great holiday gifts--or you might want to pick one up before you load the family onto a plane to visit grandma.



Turtle Trolley, Samsonite
$75, flight001.com








Home Sweet Home Trolley, Room Seven
$147, popodona.com













Rolling Hello Kitty Travel Pack
$19.99, target.com













Terrance the Trunki Ride-On Luggage
$39.99, target.com













Destroyer Kid's Rolling Luggage, Hurley
$30, ebags.com
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A child learns the meaning of democracy in D.C.



Before visiting Washington, D.C., my 5-year-old daughter, Paris, didn't even know what democracy is, as she says in the beginning of the video above. But by the end of our trip, she had grasped the meaning or at least she knew that it had something to do with George Washington, the Declaration of Independence, Susan B. Anthony, the Constitution, the Lincoln Memorial, the American flag, and so many of the other things we saw and learned about over three days.
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Exposing kids to democracy in D.C.

Explaining the meaning of democracy to a child is not an easy task. Concepts such as government, freedom, voting, citizen, and justice are difficult for a young mind to grasp. But when you bring a child to Washington, D.C., as I did last weekend, you'll find that it's much easier to get across the idea of liberty when you have the original Declaration of Independence in front of you.


Why is it important to communicate the idea of democracy to our kids? "This country, the idea that we are responsible for our own government, represents a tiny twinkle of light in a long world history of monarchy and theocracy and oppressive darkness," writes actor Richard Dreyfus in a recent article that appeared in Edutopia, the magazine for the George Lucas Education Foundation. "If our form of representative democracy lasts longer than our lifetime or our kids' lifetime, it's only because we put some effort into teaching the ideals of opportunity, mobility, freedom of thought, and assembly. America in its imperfection may be unsatisfying, but it is alive. And it is up to us to make sure America keeps on living. Kids must be reminded of the great parts of this country--the parts that aren't always so easy to see or hear. Unless we give them something to fall in love with, why should they be in love?"

And right now, in the midst of a close presidential election, I think that it's an especially important time to teach our kids to appreciate democracy and understand its meaning. Last weekend, I showed my 5-year-old daughter, Paris, around our nation's capital with this goal. While she's far from understanding the difference between the Senate and the House of Representatives she does now know that our country has a President who is elected by the people--and who lives in "a really pretty White House that looks like a princess castle."

Here's a rundown of things you can do with your kids in Washington, D.C., to expose them to democracy:


Play researcher at the Martin Luther King Public Library. Escape to the stacks in the children's section, where you'll find a wonderful collection of picture books on government, elections, voting, and civil rights. You and your child can pretend that you're researchers trying to discover the meaning of democracy. Some resources to look for on the shelves include D is for Democracy by Elissa Grodin, So You Want to Be President by Judith St. George, or Woodrow for President: A Tail of Voting, Elections, and Campaigns by Peter W. Barnes and Cheryl Shaw Barnes.

Walk the Extra Mile. In Hollywood, you stroll the Walk of Fame, while in D.C. you follow the Extra Mile, a series of bronze medallions just blocks from the White House that bring alive the stories of some of our nation's greatest heroes. Each plaque features a picture and a biography of the honoree. You'll learn about suffragist Susan B. Anthony, advocate for the blind Helen Keller, Boy Scouts founder William D. Boyce, and United Farm Workers of America cofounder Cesar Chavez.

Dine at the Old Ebbitt Grill. Established in 1856, this institution across from the White House was a favorite of presidents Grant, Cleveland, Harding, and Theodore Roosevelt and it's still a popular meeting spot for political insiders. The kids menu includes grilled cheese, chicken fingers, and PB&J.

Shake hands with Thomas Jefferson at Madame Tussauds. At this wax museum, you'll encounter lifelike wax creations of our nation's presidents and great leaders. You can share a theater box with Lincoln and sit on a bus with Rosa Parks.

Take in views from the top of the Washington Monument. Point out to your kids that this 555-foot-tall monolith is tall and skinny like the No. 1 and they'll never forget that Washington was our first president. If you want to take the elevator to the top, arrive early in the day. Tickets for a timed entrance are free but the national park distributes a set number per day and they go fast.

Rent a boat at Tidal Basin. You can float past the Jefferson Memorial, a monument to our nation's third president, and the Franklin Delano Roosevelt Memorial, and in spring, blooming cherry blossom trees.

Grab a burger at Bullfeathers. When faced with frustrations or patently absurd situations, Theodore Roosevelt would boon out "Bullfeathers!"--and hence the name of this great spot for burgers on Capitol Hill that's popular with members of the House of Representatives. Kids' menu includes the Bull Dog and Teddy's Burger.

Visit the National Archives. The Declaration of Independence, the Constitution of the United States, the Bill of Rights, the Magna Carta--all the heavy hitters are there. Your kids will probably only see these faded documents as boring pieces of paper but if you tell them that these pieces of paper give them the right to call their brother or sister a "Doo-Doo Head," they might show some interest.

Nosh on fry bread at Mitsitam Cafe. On the ground floor of the National Museum of the American Indian, this cafe is a nod to the culinary traditions of Indians from around the Americas. You can sample salmon cakes from the Pacific Northwest, chicken-stuffed tamales from South America, or buffalo burgers from the Great Plains. After lunch, explore the museum, where your kids can learn about our country's first inhabitants. At the front-desk you can pick up a special Family Guide. Don't miss the film about contemporary American Indian life in the Lelawi Theater on the fourth floor, and be sure to bring little girls by the doll collection.

Draw pictures in the National Portrait Gallery. You'll find the nation's only complete collection of presidential portraits outside the White House here. Forty-two presidents of the United States are on display, including Gilbert Stuart's Lansdowne portrait of George Washington and the famous "cracked plate" photograph of Abraham Lincoln. To engage your kids, hand them a pad of paper and markers and invite them to copy the portraits of the presidents--or suggest that they draw a portrait of themselves as president.

Browse the National Museum of American History. This Smithsonian museum tells the story of our nation's past through its collection of artifacts. A few of the treasures include Abraham Lincoln's top hat,
a collection of inaugural ball gowns, Cesar Chavez's union jacket, the Star Spangled Banner that inspired Francis Scott Key to write his poem that later became the national anthem. The museum is big and the collection vast so you might want to start by going over a map with your child and choose just a few specific items to track down. (Note: The museum has been closed for two years for renovations and is reopening November 21, 2009.)
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Washington, D.C., in focus

Here's a slide show from my trip to Washington, D.C., with my daughter. Stay tuned for stories about our trip.

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The penny game

My 5-year-old daughter, Paris, and I had two full days to explore Washington, D.C. We started day one by walking to the Washington Monument and Paris immediately began to complain. "Too hot!" "I'm tired of walking!" "I thought this trip was going to be fun!" Her remarks irritated me--and rather than deal with my grumpy kid I simply became grumpy myself. Overall, we had a good day but it was marked by moments of Paris complaining and me complaining about her complaining.

On day 2, I decided that we would do things differently. Before we left the hotel, I presented the penny game to Paris. Here's how it worked: When Paris spoke politely to me or was patient, I gave her a penny. When she complained or was rude, I took away a penny. When she collected 10 pennies, she got an ice cream.

Generally, I don't like to reward my kids because I believe they should be self-motivated and learn to want to do things--such as finish their homework and go to bed at night--for themselves, not for a treat or money. But desperate times call for desperate measures and when I expect my kids to do something out of the ordinary, I think rewards are helpful. And in this case, I was asking a 5-year-old to walk miles (blocks in D.C. are long) and wait in long lines (we waited for an hour to get into the Museum of Natural History).

The penny game was a huge success. Paris said please and thank you throughout the day and she didn't complain once while we waited some two hours to see the original Declaration of Independence. Instead, we sang songs, told stories, and had lots of laughs while others complained in line. By 4 p.m. Paris had earned her 10 pennies and I bought her an ice cream sandwich. She happily devoured the treat on the steps of the National Archives, but before finishing it off she handed me the last bite. She performed a true act of kindness without even expecting a penny.

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Budget travel tip: Take public transit from the airport

My daughter, Paris, and I traveled to Washington, D.C. over the weekend. After landing in Washington/Dulles, we headed for the taxi line. But we quickly decided to look for alternative transportation options to our hotel after discovering that a cab cost $55 to $58. With tip that's over $60.

We ended up on a bus, the Washington Flyer, that cost only $10 (kids free) and dropped us at the Metro, where we paid another $1.65 to get to our hotel. We saved $50.

Yes, taxis are convenient but they'll break your travel budget. If you have the time, you'll pay a lot less by opting for public transit. Here's a rundown of what you'll save by taking public transportation from the airport to downtown in top U.S. destinations. For point-to-point trip planning on public transportation systems in 60 U.S. cities, check out the new Google Transit at www.google.com/transit.

Chicago, O'Hare
Taxi:$45 including tip
Public transit:$3.50 (bus and train)
Save: $42

Honolulu

Taxi: $45 inclulding tip
Public transit: $1 (city bus)
Save: $44

New York, JFK
Taxi: $45 including tip
Public transit: from $7 (AirTrain and subway)
Save: $43

Portland, Ore.
Taxi: $45 to $60 including tip
Public transit: $2.30 (Max light rail
Save: $57.70

San Francisco
Taxi: $55 including tip
Public transit: $5.35 (Bart underground)
Save: $50

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NASCAR video footage

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NASCAR slideshow

Here are some photos from my day at the NASCAR race at Dover International Speedway in Delaware.

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10 tips for NASCAR novices


How does a novice NASCAR fan survive the first race? Let's just say I learned the hard way.

On the final day of my mother-son trip back East, I took 4-year-old Dante to a NASCAR race at Dover International Speedway in Delaware. This was my first race car event, and I did everything wrong: brought only $10 cash, hit the road on empty, packed a tiny tube of sunscreen, failed to bring a stroller, forgot to pack water and snacks, and most importantly I didn't leave for the races early enough. But even though we baked in the sun and I walked some five miles with my son on my back, we had a great time. As soon as the cars fired their engines, my son's eyes lit up and he was enthralled by the motor action. He quickly forgot that we didn't have cash to buy lunch and that the only ATM at the track was broken. (Don't worry: We eventually found one outside the track.)

Planning to go to your first race? So you don't make the same mistakes that I did, follow these tips:

1) Go online. The night before the race, consult the track Web site for directions and parking and shuttle info. If I had gone online, I would have learned that Dover Speedway offers a parking shuttle for $20--and this would have saved my back.

2) Fuel up. Also the night before, fill up at a gas station--so you can focus on getting to the race in the morning. Keep in mind that some tracks are in the middle of nowhere.

3) Go early.
Arrive at least four hours before the race starts, and plan to sit in traffic. We were an hour and a half away from the track in Dover but it took us four hours to get there and park the car.

4) Dress in layers. You'll be outdoors for eight to 10 hours. At Dover, it was cool in the morning, baking hot in the afternoon, and then cold again in the evening.

5) Sport comfy shoes. You'll likely have to park far from the entrance. We were a full two miles away, so I was happy that I decided to wear my tennis shoes. Also, be sure that your shoes are closed toe.

6) Be prepared for rain. Sorry, no umbrellas allowed. Pack a poncho instead.

7) Bring sunscreen. Lots of it--and a hat.

8) Wear ear protection. Decibel levels at NASCAR races are dangerously high, according to recent studies by the National Institute for Occupational Safety and Health. You should at least wear ear plugs but ear muffs are even better. You can also rent or buy special headphones that block out the car noise and come with a patch cable to connect to a scanner so you can listen in on the driver to pit communications.

9) Stuff your wallet with cash. The food vendors at NASCAR races generally don't accept credit cards so bring bills. At the race in Dover, we paid $3.50 for a bottle of water and $5 for a hot dog. You'll also need money for parking, shuttle buses, programs, and souvenirs.

10) Leave early. Unless you're a die-hard fan and don't mind sitting in traffic, leave the race an hour early. Most races last about four hours.
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9 things to do with kids in Philly

"Mommy, I don't want to leave Philadelphia!" my son, Dante, proclaimed on the plane ride home to San Francisco. I asked why and he said, "It has more stuff for kids." We decided to brainstorm a list of the city's best kid attractions. Here's what we came up with.

1) Play a round of putt-putt at Franklin Square. One of the five public squares that William Penn laid out in his original plan for the city boasts a miniature golf course (pictured above), a classic carousel, and a picnic area.

2) Take part in a bucket brigade at Fireman's Hall. Kids can play firefighter amidst some of the nation’s earliest hand-engines and hand pumpers, some dating back to 1730.

3) Satisfy your sweet tooth at Shane's. Ever tried vanilla butter creams? These rich and creamy treats are slowly cooked in a copper kettle and stirred with a wooden paddle--just the way they were made in 1876 when this candy store was founded.

4) Walk through a giant human heart at the Franklin. At this science museum founded to honor Benjamin Franklin, you can trace the route of a corpuscle through the world's largest artificial heart, play pilot in the cockpit of a T-33 jet trainer, and drive a 350-ton Baldwin steam locomotive. Don't miss: Franklin's lightning rod.

5) See real swords and daggers at the Philadelphia Museum of Art. Little boys will go nuts in the Arms & Armor gallery, filled with shiny medieval armor, swords, daggers, polearms, firearms, shields, crossbows, and equestrian equipment.

6) Watch pretzels being made at the Reading Terminal Market. At this clamorous farmers’ market (est. 1893), vendors sell produce, cookware, plants and flowers, books, handicrafts, and homemade pretzels, which were actually invented in Philly.

7) Ride in a hot air balloon at the Philadelphia Zoo. Want a sweeping view of the city? At the country's first zoo, a hot air balloon that lifts you high into the sky.

8) Order a bowl of baked mac and cheese at Jones. The Brady Bunch living room meets a New York lounge at this retro-hip restaurant dishing up American comfort food.

9) Sip an egg cream at the Franklin Fountain. At this meticulous replica of a 1905 Art Nouveau ice cream parlor, sodas are made from syrup and seltzer drawn on an original tap and banana splits are served in 100-year-old pressed glass boats.


What are your favorite kid attractions in Philly?

Photo credit: Photo by J. Holder for GPTMC
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