Slide show: The people of Bali

Throughout our trip, my husband and I have been photographing the Balinese people, who are notably gracious, warm, and friendly. Here's a slide show featuring our best photos; we will add to this during our trip.

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Pura Tanah Lot (temple of the earth and sea)


Pura Tanah Lot sits on its own island just off the southwest coast of Bali. On the night we visited, the tide was out, and locals waded through ankle-deep water to step foot on the sacred rock. They carried offerings, lovingly made from palm leaves, flowers, and incense. Tourists, who aren't allowed to enter the temple, stood back taking in the show, snapping photos.

Pura Tanah Lot is the most popular and photographed of the more than 20,000 temples that give Bali its nickname: "Island of the Gods." It's the first temple that we visited on our trip--and it offered us an introduction to the beauty of the Balinese people’s affection for Hinduism, the island’s predominant religion.

"Why can't we go on the island?" my daughter, Paris, asked me.

"Because it's sacred."

"What does that mean?"

“Well…this is a very special place for the people of Bali…”

“Why is it special?”

“Well…the people here practice a religion called Hinduism…and they believe there are Gods…Brahama…errr…Shiva…um…what’s the last one..Vishnu…”

“What are you talking about? Why can’t we go on the island?”

Luckily, foreigners can step into most temple complexes on Bali—that is, if they’re appropriately dressed. Usually, a sarong and a sash tied around the waist is an acceptable show of respect for the gods—and these can be rented the for about 20 cents at the more touristy temples.

You can imagine what my daughter was asking when we visited our next temple, where we were allowed to go inside.

“Mommy, why do you have to sear that skirt thing?”
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Surviving a 24-hour travel marathon

Two 4-year-olds and one 5-year-old on a 14-hour flight to Taipei, Taiwan, a two-hour layover and then a five hour flight to Denpasar, Bali. Sound like a disaster waiting to happen? Well, that’s what I assumed it would turn into as we waited at San Francisco International Airport for our midnight flight on China Airlines. My daughter and son, Paris and Dante, and their friend Kaya were racing around the waiting area in their pajamas. Paris and Kaya, who both brought their American Girl dolls (Julie and Jen), dumped out a backpack filled with clothing onto the floor and proceeded to fight over whose doll would wear the one pair of pajamas.

"I want the pajamas!"

"No I want them!"

"I won't be your friend if you don't let Julie wear the pajamas!"

It was about then that Dante bonked his head on the wall and melted down, screaming and crying.

"I want to stay in San Francisco! I want to go home! Why do we have to go to Bali?"

I could see on the faces of the other people waiting to board the plane that they were all hoping, Please don't let me sit next to these crazy people. And if you could see my face at that moment you would sense my feeling of utter dread. I was wondering, Why am I hauling my children across the world? How will I ever survive this flight?

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We finally settled into our seats on the plane. The kids crawled up next to me and fell fast asleep only minutes after taking off--and they slept soundly for nine hours. Yes! We all woke up and we had only five hours left of the first leg. "That's a flight from San Francisco to Hawaii!" I said to our friends Veronique and Mark who were sitting in the row just ahead of us. "Well, why didn't we just go to Hawaii?" my husband, Anthony, countered.


Those five hours were long. Paris and Kaya were entertained by The Little Mermaid DVD for about 10 minutes--and then they discovered that the back of an airline seat is actually fun to slide down. They crawled to the tops of their seats and then let themselves drop to the bottom cushion. Dante of course had to get in on the fun. Also, a glass of orange juice was spilled (all over me), an American Girl doll roller skate was lost, and the Trader Joe's Pirate Booty was consumed.

"I want more Pirate Booty!" Dante screamed.

"Get me off this plane!" I wanted to scream.

We did finally get off and landed at Taiwan Taoyuan International Airport--and then boarded another China Airlines Flight. I was dreading those five hours more than you can imagine. I didn't think I could endure more time scrunched up in a tiny seat with rambunctious kids.

But we lucked out. The flight was empty. We were able to sprawl out and get more sleep--and before we knew it were walking off the plane into the hot, moist, fragrant air of Bali.

We filed into a line to purchase our visas and then got into another line for customs. A friendly Australian family stood behind us with their two kids.

"How long was your flight?" I asked.

"Only about four hours. We come to Bali two or three times a year," the mom said. "Where are you from?"

"San Francisco."

"Why didn't you just go to Hawaii?"

And that's the question I plan to answer in my upcoming posts about our trip. Why is it worth hauling children across the world to an exotic destination?
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Bali or bust!

Tonight, we're boarding a plane to Bali--with our kids in tow. Another family will be joining us. That makes four adults, two 4-year-olds, and a 5-year-old. We'll flying 12 hours to Taipei, Taiwan, and then another five or six to Bali. Are we nuts? Stayed tuned...
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Ask Amy: Help! I'm driving with a 2-year-old to Disney World

Question: My wife and 2-year-old are traveling to Disney world this week from Illinois. We're planning to drive straight through. I heard you on the Nick Digilio show on WGN this afternoon and I thought I would get some more advice from you. I love the idea of trying to play some games with my daughter and hold out on the DVD player as long as we can. Do you have any other tips?
—Dan, Illinois

Answer: If you go into the trip with an upbeat, positive attitude, you'll all have a fine time. Sensitive to their parents' moods, kids are more likely to behave if you're confident, relaxed, and happy. You can expect to hit some low points along the way but when you're daughter starts screaming in the backseat just imagine that you're in a Chevy Chase comedy and try to laugh at the situation.

But of course, a successful family road-trip requires more than a good attitude. You definitely need to plan and prepare and help entertain your daughter on the road. As I mentioned in the radio segment, you should try to keep the DVD player off as long as possible. I usually make my kids endure six hours before I'll turn it on. If we're driving longer than six hours, then I consider that torture, and I allow them to plug in. Also, I will sometimes only use the DVD player on the return leg--because if you use it on the first leg, then your little girl is going to immediately ask for a movie on the return.

So what do you do without a DVD player?

Play with toys
Put together a bin or bag of stuff for your daughter. You can start by filling it with everyday items. When my daughter was 2 years old, I used to give her a box of Band-Aids on long road trips. It would take an hour for her to stick Band-Aids all over her body. I guess it could be considered wasteful but it certainly kept her entertained. Also, a tooth brush. My kids both love to sit in the backseat and brush their teeth. My daughter has always enjoyed coloring while we drive; I bought her a lap desk at the Container Store. Something to consider purchasing: Colorforms are great because kids can stick them on car windows and they peel right off. Your daughter would probably like the set based on the Fancy Nancy books. Also, Mrs. Grossman's sells stickers that don't stick permanently. A magnetic board with shapes and numbers might be fun for a 2-year-old.

Listen to stories and games
You can borrow CDs and Books on Tape from the library for free and then download them onto your computer and transfer them to an iPod. Be sure the Books on Tape are appropriate for your daughter's age so they hold her interest. There's a lot that you can purchase on iTunes. For a 2-year-old, I found audio versions of Green Eggs and Ham, Caps for Sale, Stone Soup, Three Billy Goats Gruff, Tikki Tikki Tembo, Danny and the Dinosaur, and Curious George Rides a Bike.

Play games and sing songs
Even a 2-year-old can play Name that Tune if you limit the song choices to "Jingle Bells," "Mary Had a Little Lamb," and "London Bridges." She's probably still a little young for I-Spy, but you can certainly tell her to look out the window for a "red car" or a "horse" or a "truck." Also, I always try to teach my kids one new song on every road trip and that always becomes the theme song for the trip.

Pack snacks
Load a small cooler with healthy snacks: peanut butter sandwiches, dried fruit, cheese, apple slices. I would limit the treats but one thing that I always bring are lollipops because they last forever and occupy my kids. You can get sugar-free or fruit-sweetened ones. Also, try to avoid fast-food. Kids’ stomachs are sensitive—especially in the car.

Stare into outer space
Kids will typically go through a fussy period or two on a road trip but typically once they work through it, they're quite happy simply staring into outer space and there's nothing wrong with being peaceful and quiet. In this day and age, it's good to learn how to do nothing.

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Fly through airport security this holiday season

Traveling by plane this holiday season? Rumor is that the airports will be relative quiet since travel is down right now due to the economy. But whether the airport is mobbed or simply crowded, going through security is always a pain in the neck. The U.S. Transportation Security Administration offered up the following tips to USA Today on how to speed your way through those checkpoints:
• Do not gift-wrap carry-on items. Security officers are required to remove the wrapping paper. Wrapped gifts should be packed in your checked bags, according to TSA spokesman Christopher White.
• Do not bring remote-controlled toys as carry-on luggage. "Unfortunately in this world we live in, terrorists have an interest in using remote-controlled detonators," White said. You can put them in checked bags.
• Pies (and other food, such as gingerbread, cookies and the like) are permitted as carry-on items. "It doesn't matter the consistency, though we may perform some additional scrutiny on the passenger or the plate," White said.
• Jams and jellies are considered gels and are therefore subject to the 3-1-1 rules if brought as carry-on items: They must be in containers no bigger than 3 ounces, and they must all fit in one one-quart clear zip-top plastic bag. (Otherwise, wrap them carefully to prevent breakage, and put them with your checked bags.)
More information at tsa.gov.
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How travel may change under Obama

Obviously, when Obama steps into his new position as president next month, travel matters aren't going to be at the top his "things to do" list. He might take a look at the economy, Iraq, Afghanistan, health care...and the list goes on and on...first. But a recent column in The San Francisco Chronicle penned by Arthur Frommer speculated some of the changes we might eventually see in the travel world.

Greater support for Amtrak: The president-elect has supported larger appropriations for operating and expanding Amtrak, while his adversary, Sen. John McCain, was well known for opposing that federal support. In addition, the Senate's most active opponent of Amtrak - Sen. John Sununu of New Hampshire - was defeated for re-election, and there's no doubt that a far more favorable environment now exists for improving and expanding Amtrak.

In the campaign, Obama also favored creation of a National Infrastructure Bank for funding such initiatives as reviving the many hundreds of miles of abandoned railroad tracks, which would restore rail service to such cities as Nashville and Las Vegas. Though a primary purpose of that bank was to create jobs, the dividends to our travel facilities are obvious.

Support for the Travel Promotion Act: Numerous members of Congress have endorsed a major program to establish an advertising and marketing medium for encouraging foreign travel to the United States, and Obama was one of the early signatories of that legislation. McCain opposed such use of federal power, and now there is no doubt that a nationally supported organization for promoting travel to the United States will be launched.

Easing of restrictions on travel by Cuban Americans to visit relatives in Cuba: Though the overall travel embargo on Cuba probably will be maintained, at least on paper if not in practice, there undoubtedly will be new regulations increasing the frequency by which Cuban Americans can visit their relatives and raising the amount of money they can spend there.

This was a major issue in South Florida during the campaign, and Obama went strongly on record as permitting greater travel there by Cuban Americans. As to Cuban travel by the rest of us (and despite statements by Obama that he does not support ending the embargo quite yet), it's predicted by many that the federal government will no longer be eager to enforce those restrictions on leisure travel, and the situation will revert to what it was several years ago: a steady traffic there by Americans flying quietly into Havana from Jamaica, the Bahamas, Canada and Mexico.

Major improvements in the air traffic control system: A constant emphasis was directed by candidate Obama to the need for greatly increased funding of air traffic control systems (and candidate McCain advocated the same). The new administration apparently will propose appropriating several billion dollars to measures that should reduce delays and improve safety.

An increase in the number of foreign visitors able to come here without visas: Up until now, it was mainly citizens of westernmost Europe (Ireland, Britain, France, Germany, Spain, Italy, etc.) who were allowed to visit the United States without first obtaining expensive visas. During the campaign, Obama suggested adding several other major countries to the visa-free list: Brazil, South Korea, Greece and others. Many observers predict that this may reverse the present downward trend of tourism to the United States.


Is there anything in the travel world that you're hoping Obama will change?
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Flying with food or gifts for the holidays?

Packing carry-on luggage for airport security checkpoints is challenging as it is--and then you throw in the holidays. It's really easy to toss a jar of apricot jam into your bag at the last minute when you realize you don't have a gift for Uncle Joe. Guess what? Jam is forbidden on flights. Oops! To help you avoid these sorts of mistakes, the Transporation Security Administration offers up a list of common liquid, aerosol and gel holiday items that you should put in your checked bag, ship ahead, or leave at home:

  • Gravy
  • Salad dressing
  • Oils and vinegars
  • Cranberry sauce
  • Salsa
  • Sauces
  • Maple syrup
  • Creamy dips
  • Wine, liquor and beer
  • Other beverages
  • Jams
  • Jellies
  • Soups
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10 gifts for travelers under $20

Got stocking stuffers for the traveler on your list? Check out these nifty products--all costing under $20.



















1) Klean Kanteen

$17.95, kleankanteen.com
The environmentally friendly alternative to plastic water bottles. Klean Kanteen is made of 100% food-grade stainless steel that will last for years. It's lightweight, holds 27 ounces (with a wide mouth for ice cubes) and has a looped cap for attaching to a backpack.










2) Impulse Carabiner LED
$14.85, magellans.com
Let there be light—over 10,000 hours of LED light, to be exact. This multi-tasking light has five switch settings —low, medium and high beam, plus fast and slow blinking modes. Includes a detachable hat clip.














3) Red Eye Pack
$18, flight001.com
In-flight comfort all packed up and carry-on approved! This kit contains an eye mask, soft ear plugs, lip balm, a hydrating lotion towelette, dental refresher, chiclets for popping your ears, and a bookmark—all packaged in a reusable clear zip-top pouch.














4) Soy Travel Candle
$14
, flight001.com
This 100 percent pure soy candle is hand-poured and clean burning, with natural wicks and a generous burn time of 22 to 24 hours.












5) Travel Alarm Clocks

$13,
travelingchic.com
Never miss a plane or train with this. These travel alarm clocks are itty bitty and oh-so-cute! They feature a light-up digital clock, a snooze button, and a unique open and close design.




















6) Nylon Pre-Board Organizer

$9.99
, travelsmith.com
Speed through security with this wearable organizer. No more fumbling in airport security lines. These organizers slip around your neck to leave your hands free, while keeping all your documents—photo ID, boarding pass, and passport—neatly stowed, visible, and secure. Durable ripstop nylon; adjustable neck strap. Nylon organizer includes a removable clear plastic ID holder, pen holder, and zippered security pocket for cash and cards.
















7) Swivel & Tilt Mini Globe
$12.95, adcmap.com
This handy four inch globe is small in size but big on detail, with a vivid dark blue ocean. The globe can be rotated in all directions and has a stylish and stable weighted base. It is accurate and up-to-date, and printed in full color with clearly defined map features. Put the world in the palm of your hand! Also available in four other styles: Antique, physical, pale blue ocean, and stars. Makes a great gift for all ages.

















8) Towel Lite

$10.50,
rei.com
Hiking in Hawaii and suddenly come upon a waterfall with a perfect swimming pool? Dive in and then pull this soft, ultralight, highly absorbent, quick-drying towel from your daypack. It absorbs up to eight times its weight in liquid, yet 90% of the liquid can be easily wrung out to speed drying time.












9) City Walks Deck

$14, uncommongoods.com
Take a walk off the beaten path and experience cities the way locals do—on foot! Each deck contains 50 super-durable cards with a map and walk route on one side and insider information, history, and tips on the other. Cities include New York (available in special Kids' Edition), Boston, Chicago, Los Angeles, San Francisco (available in special Kids' Edition), Washington DC, Barcelona, London, Paris, Rome, Vancouver and Amsterdam.




















10) Tepper Jackson Luggage Tags

$17, travelsmith.com
The bright, bold colors and whimsical designs of these tags will catch your eye instantly-and make you smile to boot! Durable PVC with transparent rubber strap and silver metal buckle. Six patterns. Imported.
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Gifts for globe-trotting guys

What do you get for the guy who is always on the go? Here are some suggestions.














Mini Travel Bar $32.07 atafa.com
James Bond would be jealous. He can enjoy a cocktail wherever he travels with this sleek canvas portable bar kit. The compact, insulated case features a flask (with a captured lid so it can never get lost), funnel, corkscrew, stir stick, ice tongs and clever telescoping shot glasses.



















Padded Laptop Bag

Filson, $285
filson.com
This rugged bag is made from a super heavy-duty cotton that will last forever. It is durable and impregnated with wax to make it water resistant and protect against wear. The straps are brown bridle leather. The heavy duty hardware is brass. Large zippered outside compartment has a variety of smaller pockets for pencils, pens, business cards, calculator, cellular phone, battery pack, and peripherals.













Travel Backgammon Set
$59 magellans.com
He can enjoy a quick game of backgammon anywhere. Made of red textured leather with contrasting white accent stitching, the full-sized travel backgammon board includes dice and game pieces (replacements available). The pieces store conveniently in the attached zippered pouch and the entire board rolls up and ties with a leather cord for easy packing.


















Kensington Battery Pack and Charger
$49.99 us.kensington.com
The rechargeable battery pack and charger for iPhone and iPod has the power he needs to keep the conversations and music going while he's on the road.



















Dining Table Ping Pong

$27.99

perpetualkid.com
Turn any boring table into the ultimate ping pong match! A full size table-tennis set that includes: quality full size table tennis paddles, 2 balls, a full size net, two steel posts with padded clamps (to fit all tables) plus two awesome wristbands! The sturdy metal case is perfect to stow it all away at the end of the tournament.



















Tumi Ultra Slim Universal Power Adaptor Kit
$195 tumi.com
This is the ultimate power tool for mobile computer and electronics users. Compact and lightweight, it allows you to use a wall, automobile or airline connection. Comes with a variety of tips to charge all your electronics while on the road. Its foldable carrying case can be packed flat in a brief or snapped close for travel.

Stay tuned for gifts for the traveler costing under $20.
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Gifts for traveling gals

Tis the season to treat your favorite female travelers to the most stylish travel gear.















Par Avion Airline Cosmetics Pouch

Kate Spade, $55

katespade.com
This is the solution to the daunting ziplock bag required to fly! Airline cosmetics bag is a clear, one quart, zip top bag that meets TSA regulations for airline travel with cosmetics. Now all she needs are mini bottles of everything to keep her looking good while flying high.




















Lavender Travel Candle

Elizabeth W, $20

elizabethw.com
When she's away from home, this candle is the perfect travel companion. It's therapeutic lavender scent will calm her. Specially formulated with a soft was to retain scent, this candle is hand-poured and lead free.













Passport Wallet

Tepper Jackson, $28

travelingchic.com
This eye-catching swirl print passport holder will prevent her from digging through her bag frantically trying to find her passport! Small enough to travel discretely, but big enough to store all the important travel items. The wallet includes a money pocket, 3 card pockets, an ID pocket and 2 side pockets.




Tripp Cabin Upright
Orla Kiely, $350
orlakiely.com
She'll travel in style with this bag by a British textile designer. Vinyl wheeled upright with beige cotton stem print lining. Inside details include zip pocket for documents, two pouch pockets and elastic straps to hold contents in place. Extendable handle that folds away. Canvas handles with leather trim. Zip to close.









Travel Sleep Mask

$19.95
travelingchic.com
This travel eye mask will let her get beauty sleep on the plane and in the hotel and remain stylish at the same time! Silk and padded with cotton; elastic lace strap.














4x6 Paris Noteook

Cavallini Papers, $10.99
twohandspaperie.com
She can write about her travels—and how much she misses you—in this decorative notebook made with luxurious Italian paper.

This is the first in a series of holiday gift guides. Stay tuned to for a roundup of gadgets for globe-trotting guys...
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Thanksgiving travel rule 3: Drive on Thanksgiving

We left Portland around noon for our final destination: Harstine Island. The tiny isle sits on the southern end of Puget Sound, just off the coast from Shelton, Wash. Mapquest told us that the drive would take three hours. My husband, Anthony, predicted five hours--after the bad luck we had with traffic the past two days.

Guess what? It took us two hours and forty five minutes. The highways were empty. We arrived at my aunt and uncles a few hours before the turkey even came out of the oven.

"How was the drive?" everyone asked as our family of four piled out of the car.

"Oh, no problem." By then we had already forgotten about the traffic nightmare on San Francisco's Bay Bridge.
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Thanksgiving travel rule 2: Never drive the day before Thanksgiving

We woke up in Ashland, Ore., refreshed and ready to hit the road. After enjoying a complimentary breakfast at our hotel, the Best Western Windsor Inn, we left for Portland at 10 a.m. We had promised some friends—Yuko and Jeff and their kids Isao and Tomo—who lived in the city that we'd arrive at their house between 3 p.m. and 4 p.m. With Portland being a 5 hour drive from Ashland, we were right on track.

The southern Oregon stretch of I-5 is lovely and scenic. It winds through forests, crosses rivers, and passes through small farm towns: Talent, Hugo, Sunny Valley, Azalea, Riddle. We all thoroughly enjoyed the drive—until we hit Eugene, 100 miles outside of Portland, where the traffic came to a dead stop. I stood up on the car seats and stuck my head through the sunroof, convinced that there must be accident ahead. No, just endless cars inching along the highway. Nearly every other car seemed to have a University of Oregon or Oregon State bumper sticker; we were in the midst of the "going home from college" rush-hour traffic.

My husband, Anthony, and I started to dig into one another.

"Why did you insist on working out at the hotel gym this morning?" I scolded him. "If we left an hour earlier we never would have hit this traffic!"

"Why did you insist on not setting an alarm so we woke up earlier?" he countered.

We pulled off to get some gas. As the attendant was filling our tank, Anthony asked, "Why is there all this traffic? Is this typical?"

The guy reminded us that it was the day before Thanksgiving. "This is the busiest driving day of the year," he said. "There's always lots of traffic."

"How long do you think it will take us to get to Portland?"

"I'm not even going to try to answer that question..."

We stopped arguing, came to terms with our fate, and called our friends to say that we would be late. We also decided that the next time we took a Thanksgiving road-trip we would leave a day earlier.

We finally reached Portland at 6 p.m.--that's three hours later than planned. We arrived at Yuko and Jeff's house in east Portland, tired and stressed. But once we stepped inside their cozy craftsman bungalow, warm from a blaze in the fireplace, we relaxed. They greeted us with hot sake and a Japanese soup filled with fresh fish and vegetables. The kids roasted marshmallows in the fireplace and watched the Nutcracker on TV. And then Yuko played the piano and we all sang holiday songs. Yuko's daughter, Tomo, taught us the lyrics to a song about a turkey named Albuquerque, sung to the tune of "Clementine."

Albuquerque is a turkey
And he's feathered and he's fine
And he wobbles and he gobbles
and he's absolutely mine.
He's the best pet that you can get..
Better than a dog or cat.
He's my Albuquerque turkey
And I'm awfully proud of that.
He once told me, very frankly
he preferred to be my pet,
not the main course at my dinner,
and I told him not to fret.
And my Albuquerque turkey
is so happy in his bed,
'Cause for our Thanksgiving dinner...
We had egg foo yong instead.

Those few hours with our friends were memorable and well worth the drive. This is why we all hop in our cars and on planes over the Thanksgiving holiday. It's to spend time with friends and family.
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Thanksgiving travel rule 1: Never leave at rush hour

We planned to leave our home in San Francisco for our family road trip to Seattle at 2 p.m. on Tuesday. But of course, everything took longer—the packing, the cleaning, the car tuneup—than expected. We didn’t actually have the car packed and the kids loaded until 6 p.m.

“This is crazy. It’s rush hour. Let’s eat dinner in the city and then leave later to skip the traffic,” my husband pleaded.

“No! Let’s just get going. The traffic won’t be that bad.” I was ready and eager to get going. We were driving all the way to Ashland, Ore., that night—five and a half hours from San Francisco—and I didn’t want to be on the road late at night.

I was wrong. It took us one hour to travel 11 miles from our home in San Francisco to Berkeley, just across the bay.

As we exited out of the traffic to grab dinner at the Mexican restaurant Picante, my 4-year-old son, Dante, asked, “Are we in Ashland? Are we going to the Best Western hotel?”

I didn’t have the heart to tell him that we still had 5 hours and 20 minutes ahead us and probably more like seven hours with the traffic.

At 2 a.m. we rolled into the Best Western Windsor Inn in Ashland.

Welcome! You're the last ones to check in. So glad you made it!" the front-desk clerk said.

Rule 1: Never drive at rush hour on the week of Thanksgiving, unless you want to sit in traffic.
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Thanksgiving road-trip: SF to Harstine Is.

Steve Martin and John Candy taught us in the 1987 movie Planes, Trains, and Automobiles that Thanksgiving travel isn’t easy. Martin plays a tightly wound advertising exec, Neal Page, who is on a business trip in New York and trying to get home to his family in Chicago. He ends up traveling with Candy, who plays shower curtain ring salesman Del Griffith, when their plane is diverted to Wichita, Kansas, due to a blizzard in Chicago. A trip that should have taken an hour and forty-five minutes turns into a three-day error-prone journey. But in the end their pain and persistence pays off when they gather with Martin’s family for a memorable meal.

I approached our Thanksgiving road trip with this film in mind. I knew that the 22-hour drive from our house in San Francisco to my aunt and uncle’s house on Harstine Island on Washington's Puget Sound wasn’t going to be easy.

First of all, my 5-year-old daughter made it very clear that she didn't want to go on a road trip: "Why do we have to drive again? Why can't we fly? Driving is so boring!"

My husband wasn't to keen about the trip either: "The timing of this trip couldn't be worse. I'm busy at work. I still have to bill 40 hours this week so you need to find time for me to work on the trip."

I also had to work so I knew we would be trading off at the wheel so we could log some hours on our laptops and Blackberries in the passenger seat. And then there was the sheer fact that we were driving at Thanksgiving, the busiest travel time of the year.

"You know that there will be lots of traffic," my husband told me.

"There's not going to be traffic. Don't worry about it. We'll be out in rural areas most of the time. No traffic there," I replied.

Famous last words.
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Ask Amy: Cleaning baby bottles in Mexico

Question: I was digging around on the Internet for information on traveling to Mexico with an infant and came across your September 9, 2008, entry. I was curious to know if you have any advice for cleaning baby bottles while in Mexico. We are planning to use bottled water for formula, but I don't know if I need to wash the bottles with bottled water as well. We won't have access to a microwave to boil water or to use sterilizing bags so I'm trying to figure out what is best to do. My son is 3 months old and we are still wondering with all of the gear and supplies we have to bring along if we are insane for traveling to Mexico with him . . . the things you do for family (my sister-in-law is getting married there). Your entry has given me some confidence, so thanks!
—Larissa

Answer: First off, take a deep breath and relax. You're going to have a great time in Mexico and your baby will be fine. Just like you, I was worried about traveling there with my 1-year-old, but everything worked out and we had a great trip. I did use bottled water to wash the baby bottles. Our hotel said that the water from the faucet was filtered and safe to drink but I wanted to be extra careful. Be sure to buy the water from an established supermarket or the hotel--rather than from a small stand on the street. Sometimes these small stands refill used bottles. Before you go, be sure to check in with your child's pediatrician who might have tips on how to keep your baby safe and healthy while you're traveling. Have fun!
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Use frequent-flier miles in a jiffy

When's the last time you tried to use your frequent-flier miles to book a flight? Unless you were reserving more than six months ahead, you probably struggled to come up with a seat. But the frequent-flier seats are out there and a new service offered by Yapta.com will alert you when they become available. Ever since launching in 2006, Yapta has notified travelers when airfares drop and now the site will send out an email when frequent flier miles can be used to book a flight.

"One of the biggest frustrations for frequent travelers is not knowing when they can actually redeem their miles to book an award seat," says Tom Romary, president & CEO of Yapta. "Yapta now alerts travelers via email when an award seat is available, so they don't miss out on an opportunity to use their hard-earned miles. As a personal travel assistant, Yapta enables travelers to choose the exact flights they want to take and - in addition to checking prices - tracks daily the availability of award seat inventory for them."

Here's how it works: You use Yapta to plan a trip and find the flights that you're interested in taking. From the search results you can choose to track award tickets and then Yapta will send you an email when an award seat becomes available.
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How to haul wine home

You spent the afternoon wine-tasting and discovered an amazing zin. You want to bring a case home--but how do you do it? The rules and regulations for transporting a case from one state to another are far more complex than the wine itself, but these tips should help you bring a bottle home.

Check the state laws. States wine shipping regulations vary so check a reliable source on the legality of direct shipping to your state before wine from another state. You can get up-to-date information on reciprocal and nonreciprocal states from Free the Grapes, a coalition of wine lovers, wineries and retailers with a mission to help wine consumers get the wines of their choice, at freethegrapes.org.

Talk to the winery. The winery might be able to ship the wine for you—especially if you’re looking to mail it to a reciprocal state. Don’t trust a winery that says they can send your bottles to a nonreciprocal state. If they run into trouble, you lose your wine.

Find a local shipping company. If you have to find a shipping company, you need to know that it’s illegal to box your own bottles and send it to a nonreciprocal states. If you’re mailing to a reciprocal state, make sure the packaging is adequate. For example FedEx requires that you package your bottles in molded polystyrene or die-cut corrugated units; bubble wrap, peanuts, and wadded paper are unacceptable.

Don’t carry it on the plane. Because of the federal government’s restrictions for carrying liquids onto planes, don’t even think of stuffing a bottle into your carry-on. But you can consider purchasing an FAA-approved travel wine safe that will allow you to check your bottles along with your luggage. These run $250 to $400; available at portlandwinegear.com, skymall.com, and wineenthusiast.com. Just be sure to contact your airline carrier and check on state laws before showing up at the airport with a safe full of wine.

Buy wine at home. Skip the hassle and ask the winery if you can pick up a bottle at a store in your state.
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Disney theme parks offer wait times by cell phone

So let's say you're at Disneyland with the family and you just got off the Matterhorn. The kids scream, "Space Mountain!" and you're game but not if you have to wait in another two-hour line. What do you do? Beginning next year, you'll be able to pick up your phone to determine the wait time at the popular roller-coaster, according to an article in today's USA Today.

The Walt Disney Co. and Verizon Wireless announced Wednesday that they have reached a multiyear deal to provide theme park information and extras to Verizon customers who download a special application.
Beginning next year, visitors to Disneyland and Florida's Walt Disney World will be able to use their Verizon phones to locate shows, costumed characters and restaurants; find wait times for rides, play mobile games and receive messages from Disney characters.
Because cellphone technology pinpoints a device's location, users can tell how far away they are from Mickey Mouse, for example.
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'Family lanes' take off at airports

Have you ever tried to get your family through an airport security checkpoint? While you're removing the shoes from your squirming toddler, shoving the car seat through the X-ray machine, and carefully lifting your sleeping baby from the stroller, the guy behind you screams "Hurry up!"

The Transportation Security Administration recognizes that families move through security at a slower pace and it's expanding its 'family lanes' program to every airport security checkpoint in America. Assistants will be on hand to help families and travelers with special needs move through security. At the 45 largest airports, special scanners will be available to screen large bottles of "medically necessary" liquids such as infant formula and contact-lens solution.

The family lanes, currently available at only 48 airports, will be in place at every large and midsize airport by Thursday, November 20, just in time for the busy holiday travel period, and they will remain permanently.
How do you manage to get through airport security with kids?
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Amazing product for packing light

These days packing light and stuffing everything into one bag is crucial since all major airlines are charging for checking in luggage. Dr. Bronner's Magic 18-in-One Soap is a product that takes up little space in your bag (try a 2 oz. bottle for $2.49) and promises 18 different uses: toothpaste, shampoo, laundry detergent, mouth wash, body wash, shaving cream, bubble bath, and the list goes on. The 60-year-old company makes it soaps with a simple, and short list of ingredients: organic extra virgin coconut, olive, jojoba and hemp oils.

What's more the soap is completely biodegradable and vegetable-based, made with certified fair trade and organic oils, and packaged in 100 percent post-consumer recycled bottles.
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How to carry it all on

Last week the world's largest airline announced that it's charging for checked bags. Delta is the last major carrier to do so. You'll pay $15 for the first piece of luggage, and $25 for the second. Now that the airlines are hitting passengers with these fees, more people will be rolling carry-ons onto the plane. But this requires packing light. Here are some tips on how to squeeze everything you need for three days or three weeks into just one bag.

Consult a packing list. The Internet is full of lists geared to packing light. Travel guru and guidebook author Rick Steves's is especially useful; to find it, click here.

Bring only one pair of shoes. This is one area where travelers tend to overdo it. You don't need a pair of shoes for every outfit. Instead bring only one pair of comfortable shoes that goes with everything. An exception to this rule is when you're traveling to the tropics where you'll want a pair of sandals.

Dress in black and blues. Dark colors don't show wrinkles or stains. You can always have cothing dry cleaned through the hotel, wash it in the sink, or ask if the hotel has a washer and dryer for guests.

Don't pack for the worst case scenario. Risk shivering for a day rather than taking a heavy coat. If you get hit with unexpectedly cold weather, you can simply buy yourself a new jacket. Consult weather reports the night before you leave to help you decide what to bring. And if you are heading for a place with cold weather, wear your jacket on the plane.

Use the hotel shampoo. You can limit toiletries by using those provided by your hotel. Even most budget hotels provide a small bottle of shampoo and hand lotion. But you'll definitely need to bring some essentials, which might include toothpaste, toothbrush, deodorant, sunscreen, and anything else that you use on a daily basis. Consider a vacation from cosmetics or just bring a lipstick and mascara.

Check the TSA Web site. The Transporation Security Administration has all sorts of rules for what you can bring onto the plane. For example, all liquids, gels, and aerosols must be in three-ounce or smaller container and then placed in a single, quart-size, zip-top, clear plastic bag. For more info, visit tsa.gov.

Buy the right bag. Check the airlines' weight and size restrictions for carry-ons before purchasing a bag. The formula used to find the maximum size carry-on bag for most airlines is 45 inches linear: length plus width plus depth. The bags pictured above are from Flight 001, a travel gear Web site. Another great resource is eBags.

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Going, going, gone...

Every year more than 50,000 animal species become extinct, 60,000 square miles of rainforests are lost, and countless historical sites are destroyed. Whether it’s the collapse of a rock formation in Utah's Arches National Park or the last Yankee’s game played at New York’s historic Yankee Stadium, we are reminded on a daily basis of the urgency to visit some of our world’s most beloved natural and cultural destinations.

Frommer’s new book 500 Places to See Before They Disapear ($19.99) is a guide to these precious and fragile sites that are disappearing at an astonishing rate. This book not only gives you an indication of how much of the world we take for granted, but also sheds some light on why natural habitats are disappearing and in some cases, what you can do to prevent it.

Here are some of the places included in the book:

Fraser Island, Australia—an island entirely of sand, threatened by rising sea levels.

Grove of Osun-Osogbo, Nigeria—the last remains of a primeval forest, held sacred in Yorubo worship.

Fenway Park, Boston—one of the last original ballparks and a national icon.

Willow Creek Preserve, Oregon—where you’ll find the nearly extinct Fender’s blue butterflies.

TeotichuacĂ n, Mexico—at one time the largest city in the world, now nearly inhabitable because of air pollution (the name means “Place Where Gods Were Born”).

Are there any destinations you'd like to see before they're gone?
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Ask Amy: Local grinds in Honolulu

Question: My wife and I are vacationing in Waikiki for a week this winter. Where should we eat? We'd especially like some tips on local spots serving fresh fish. Also, we're on a budget.
—Donald, Portland, Ore.

Answer: If you love fish, then you're traveling to the right place as Waikiki is full of places dishing up seafood. Here are three must-try places:

At Nico's at Pier 38, the grilled ono may come in a Styrofoam container but it's the sweetest and moistest fish you'll ever eat for less than $10. Go on the weekend when there's live music, or for breakfast (fish and eggs, mmm...).

The Diamond Head Market and Grill specializes in charbroiled entrées; the salmon is served with a tasty miso-ginger sauce and the ahi steak comes on a roll slathered in wasabi aioli. Seating is limited to outdoor picnic tables.

Rumor is that after the fancy restaurants in Waikiki close, the chefs head for downtown Honolulu to the Side Street Inn for barbecued ribs slathered in lilkoi sauce and pesto-crusted ahi.
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Meet Chris Lesnewski



Chris Lesnewski is just the sort of guy you want to meet when you go to check into a hotel. The front-desk clerk at the historic Best Western Independence Park Hotel in Old Town Philadelphia, Chris is charming, sincere, and funny. And he'll bend over backward to help out his guests.
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