Where should you change a diaper on the plane?

After an arm wrestling match with the car seat, you've finally figured out how to install the thing into the airplane seat. You've got you're baby all buckled in and you're about to pull out the sandwich you bought because you haven't eaten a thing all day.

But suddenly a terrible smell fills the air. Ugh! Dirty diaper!

Where should you change the diaper?

This question comes up in a recent LA Times article. A reader writes in complaining about some parents who changed their baby's diaper in their first-class seat, stinking up their entire section. I advise against this. It's rude and unfair. Dirty diapers are gross and don't need to be shared with everyone on the plane.

Instead lug your kid to the bathroom. Yes, the quarters are tiny and you'll have to bring out some fancy yoga moves to get your baby changed but it's the right thing to do.
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Issaquah, Wash.: A cool, little place with the best hot chocolate ever—M&Ms!


My best friend from growing up lives outside Seattle near the town of Issaquah, Wash. This small town has grown into a sprawling suburban community yet it's still pretty and green, surrounded by mountains and located at the foot of a long lake.

My son and I visited for a few days on our recent spring break trip to the Northwest. Here are a few highlights as well as places we hope to visit on our next trip:

Issaquah Cafe: The hot chocolate and pancakes come topped with tiny M&Ms. In other words, my son liked this cozy breakfast spot. I was also quite happy with my pumpkin waffle.

Historic Train Museum: An exact replication of the original structure and materials.

Boehm’s Candies
: The Edelweiss Chalet where you can buy these local chocolates looks as if it were plucked out of the Swiss Alps and plunked down in Issaquah. The traditional wooden alpine chalet is oozing with old world charm—and the sweet smells of hand-dipped chocolate truffles.

Cougar Mountain Zoo: This sweet and tiny zoo with breathtaking views of the cascades is home to a few tigers, cougar cubs, a herd of reindeer, and other interesting animals.
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Red sports car: Perfect wheels for a mother-son trip

I always ask to rent an economy, compact car.

"The cheapest one you've got!" I say.

Well, when my son and I went to rent wheels in Seattle over our spring break trip, the cheapest car they had left was a cherry red Mustang sports car.

"Whoah!" my 7-year-old son said. "How fast does it go mommy?"

We never found out how fast it goes as I'm a cautious slow driver, but we did have a lot of fun cruising Seattle in our red hot car. Better yet, Budget charged us the economy, compact price.
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How to build a snowman

My daughter built her first-ever snowman on our recent trip to the mountains.

"It's small mommy but I did it all by myself!"
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Driving in the snow


We left our house in San Francisco at noon. The Sierra Nevada is only about three hours away. We'd be there by late afternoon, right?

We were so wrong. By the time we reached 4,000 feet the rain turned to snow and the traffic came to a dead stop. It took us three hours to travel 30 minutes. The cars were inching along painfully slow.

Thankfully when we woke up the next morning in our cabin in Tahoe-Donner, fluffy white powder was glistening underneath clear skies.

Sometimes it's worth driving in the snow....
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Babysitters at 30,000 feet: Now you can hire a sky-nanny to watch your kids on long plane flights


Is there anything worse than dealing with fussy kids on a long plane flight? What to do?

Enter Nanny in the Clouds. This new service connects you with a nanny who is already on your flight and willing to help out with the kids.

It's free to sign up and costs $10 to get the contact information for a potential nanny on your flight. The two parties negotiate their own hourly rate for babysitting.

Nanny in the Clouds doesn't do background checks but sky-nannies are required to provide references.

The idea is brilliant and I desperately needed this on a flight to Hong Kong with my two kids, but with thousands upon thousands of flights every day, it's hard to imagine that a kid-loving person who's dying to babysit will be signed up with Nanny in the Clouds on your flight.

Sign up with Nanny in the Clouds.
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Happy International Passport Day


Need a passport? Tomorrow is your day.

Saturday, March 10, marks International Passport Day and the State Department will allow citizens to apply for a passport at its regional passport agencies without an appointment. Normally, you have to make an appointment during the week—which is difficult if you work full-time.
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Two perfect hours in downtown Nashville

We have two hours in downtown Nashville. Not a lot of time.

Where should we go? Jack's, everyone tells us.

And so at about 7 p.m. on a Saturday night my friend Dina and I find ourselves in a line winding outside this hole-in-the-wall on Broadway. The line moves fast and soon we're choosing between freshly smoked pork shoulder, Texas beef brisket, and St. Louis ribs.

I decide on a brisket sandwich and two sides—creamed corn and baked beans. Dina gets the same thing with pork. The only mistake we made was ordering a regular sandwich "We should have ordered the jumbo," Dina says.

When our plates are clean, we head next door to Robert's where a local band plays Johnny Cash, Merle Haggard, and Allman Bros. covers. Cowboy boots in every color line shelves on one wall; the other wall is plastered in photographs of stars like Dolly Parton who have played on the stage. Two Blue Moon beers, one set, and we're out the door.

Two perfect hours in downtown Nashville.
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San Francisco Airport's new Terminal 2

San Francisco International Airport's new Terminal is sparkling and beautiful—and it's a food-lover's haven. I was delighted to walk into this modern space with water bottle-filling stations, Design Within Reach Furniture, and several appealing places to grab a bite. You can start with freshly rolled sushi at Wakaba, grab a coffee at Peet's and finish with a cup of cool, tart yogurt at Pinkberry. There are also Niman Ranch burgers at Burger Joint, fresh taco salads at Andalé, and tapas and local wines at Vino Volo.
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Best Western Golden Key, Auburn, Calif.


My 9-year-old daughter was too embarrassed to wear her snow pants to breakfast at the Best Western Golden Key.

"Mommy, people will think I'm weird!" she said.

She's at that age when everything is starting to make her feel awkward.

But as soon as we stepped inside the lobby and saw that nearly everyone sitting down and enjoying the hotels hot breakfast was dressed in ski clothes, my daughter blurted out, "Mommy I need to go back to the room to get my ski pants!"

Yes, in the winter time, when the Sierra Nevada are covered in snow, this friendly hotel in the foothills attracts a ski crowd. Only a 45 minute drive from the slopes, this makes for a great stopover on your way from the California Bay Area to the mountains.

Our rooms were comfy, clean and quiet. My kids were disappointed that they didn't bring their swim suits because there's an indoor pool and an outdoor hot tub. The breakfast—with waffles, fresh fruit, and yogurt—is complimentary. And as with all Best Westerns, the wi-fi is free.

I'll also make a special call-out to the people behind the front desk who are especially friendly. We checked out of the hotel and I returned my keys and then I realized that I'd left the luggage in the room. I needed to get a new key card!

Luggage in the car. Ready to go. My daughter screams out, "I forgot my blankie under the covers!"

I went back into the lobby to request yet another key.

The hotel clerk chuckled and told me to just leave the key in the room.

"You need to get up to the mountains," he said.
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Hooray! There's snow in the Sierra Nevada

With hardly a flake falling in December, Californians (and Nevadans) are absolutely elated about the recent snow storms hitting the Sierra Nevada. This means there will be plenty of the white stuff over the President's Weekend.

Our family is hoping to head for the mountains this weekend for at least one night and I was just on the Best Western site looking for rooms. There are still a few left—book now!

Here are a few places to check out if you'd like to escape to the mountains this weekend:

Best Western Station House Inn, South Lake Tahoe
Best Western Plus Airport Plaza, Reno
Best Western Stagecoach Inn, Pollock Pines
Best Western Gold Country Inn, Grass Valley
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Washington, D.C.: Martin Luther King Memorial

Last summer, the Martin Luther King, Jr., National Memorial opened in Washington, D.C. The four-acre monument is the first to a black man on the mall, with an impressive stone Dr. King His stone facing the Jefferson Memorial across the water. Lincoln sits behind him, and Roosevelt is to his right.

I recently visited on a clear evening and was moved by visitors who were brought to tears by the sight of the monument. My eyes watered at the sight of the young boy in the photo below looking up at the face of Dr. King.




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BestWestern: Stay three times, earn a free night

Who doesn't love free! BestWestern is offering a great promotion that allows members of its rewards program to earn a free night after staying three separate times at any property between February 6 and April 8, 2012. Learn more at BestWestern.com.
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Are vacations more affordable than summer camp?

I'm starting to map out summer. Yes, it's still months off but summer camps fill up and since I work full-time I need to make sure my kids are booked.

But signing up for summer camps can be depressing...because they cost so much. My son wants to learn to play tennis and so I looked up a camp where we live in San Francisco. $750 a week--and that's not even full-time. It costs extra to keep them there until 5 p.m. And that's for one kid! I also have a daughter who needs something to do that week.

I joked to my husband that it's less expensive for us to go on vacation than it is to stay home and work and send our kids to camp.

Anyone else outraged by the high cost of summer camp?
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Ohio River Valley: Summer road trip?

Every summer our family of four hits the road for a week-long trip. Last summer, we drove across Montana. Another summer we cruised up I-5 through Northern California, Oregon, and Washington. We've also followed Route 66 and traced the length of the Mississippi River, which actually took us three weeks.

We're starting to explore routes for this summer, and I keep coming back to the Ohio River Valley. This isn't an especially sexy option. No glamorous cities or big-name national parks along this route. I couldn't find a single guidebook to the drive that follows the Ohio River through Ohio, Illinois, Indiana, West Virgina, and Kentucky.

But I did come across this Ohio River Scenic Byway website: http://byways.org/explore/byways/2286. And this one: http://ohioriverbyway.com.

I'm drawn to the rural countryside of Kentucky and the Industrial cities: Pittsburgh and Cincinnati. And I've always wanted to see Louisville.

What do you think? Have you driven this stretch of road? Please offer suggestions.
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Love at first sight: Best Western Premier Mariemont Inn

Last night I was browsing hotels on BestWestern.com and I fell in love—with the Premier Mariemont Inn in Cincinnati, Ohio.

The Tudor-style inn with timber framing is on the National Register of Historic Places and it looks as if it was plucked from the English countryside. The hotel was built in 1926 as part of a planned suburban town, and everything in this corner of Cincinnati is in the Tudor style.

I just might be planning my summer road trip around this hotel...I think we need to stop in Cincinnati, Ohio.

Take a look at the inside of the hotel:



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Washington, D.C.'s Dupont Circle: A great place to spend an afternoon

Washington, D.C.'s Dupont Circle might be our country's most famous traffic hub, but it's also a vibrant neighborhood where you can easily spend a day. You can stop in the shops along Connecticut Avenue, and then take side streets to discover boutiques and little art galleries. And don't miss the stately homes and embassies, marked with flags and plaques, on Massachusetts Avenue, west of Dupont Circle. Here are a few spots I discovered on a recent visit:

Panas Gourmet Empanadas: This casual little place with counter service specializes in crescent-shaped turnovers stuffed with meats, veggies, and all sorts of spices (pictured above). Empanadas hail from the Latin America countries and a basketful of them makes a perfect lunch. The meat ones are the tastiest, such as the the chipolte steak with shredded sirloin or the carne with green olives, Spanish peppers and beef. Each order comes with salty plantain chips.

The Phillips Collection
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While the museums on the Mall are huge and overwhelming, this one is small and intimate and you can easily see every painting in an hour. And it's an absolutely lovely collection of impressionist and modern works, with paintings by Renoir and Rothko, Bonnard and O'Keeffe, van Gogh and Diebenkorn. Opened in 1921, this is actually America's first museum of modern art, opening eight years before the Museum of Modern Art in New York.

Pizzeria Paradiso: The cooks here pull blistering thin-crusts crust pizzas from an oak-burning oven at this popular spot. Expect to wait but it's worth it.

Kramerbooks & Afterwords Cafe: Browse the tables piled high with books and then stick around for a piece of pie and a cup of tea in the cafe at this well-loved local institution.
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Ask Amy: Is Mexico safe for a 3-month-old baby?


Question: I just found your blog and it feels like a lifesaver right now... or soulsaver I guess I should say. I just found out I'm 2 months pregnant (not planned). I do retreats out of the country and have been excited about my career path and the possibilities for travel in my future. Having a family is something I didn't really have strong ambitions for, although I did feel I would welcome the experience. Finding out I am pregnant was less than welcomed at first. After a few weeks now of processing, I am starting to get excited. Your blog makes me happy to see that women are traveling and living their lives WITH babies. So here is my question for you:

I am scheduled to co-facilitate a really great women's retreat the first week of Dec, 2012 in Mexico. My due date is August 29th. Any advice on taking a 3 month old to a yoga resort in Mexico? I will be teaching 2 classes a day. Also, in March of this year, I am co-facilitating a retreat to Nicaragua. Any thoughts on traveling pregnant to a 3rd world country?

Answer: My best advice is: Don't worry. Everything will be fine.

I can remember when one of my best friends asked me to be in her wedding in Mexico, and I had a baby and was pregnant. I spent weeks fretting over dirty drinking water and strange viruses. I called my pediatrician in a panic and asked: "Do you think I should just cancel the trip?" She told me what I just told you: "Don't worry."

And it was good advice. We ended up having a lovely time and there were no problems. Mexicans adore children. At dinner, the waitstaff would take turns holding our daughter while we ate. Once a waitress even rocked her to sleep.

If you're nursing, feeding your 3-month-old will be easy. You'll want to make sure to stay healthy by drinking bottled water and don't eat any uncooked vegetables. Bring some PeptoBismal tablets just in case. And check in with your doctor and pediatrician a couple weeks before you leave. You might consider locating a pediatrician close to where you'll be staying in Mexico before you go.

As for traveling while pregnant, you'll find a few tips here.
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Will Europe be on sale this summer?


With Europe in the midst of a major financial crisis, will U.S. travelers heading across the pond find incredible deals?

Yes, possibly in a few countries. Portugal, Ireland, Greece and Spain—the worst hit countries should—have some deals. USA Today reports:
...travel agents are seeing potential bargains in these countries in everything from airfares, hotels and restaurants, to in-country transportation and visits to key tourist sites.

The agents also regard these four nations as potentially cheaper to visit this summer than three other top tourist European destinations: Britain, France and Italy.

But while you might find great rates on hotels in these countries, you probably won't score bargain prices on flights to get you there. Airfares are on the rise and this trend is expected to continue through the summer.
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Awesome news for air travelers!

This is a good day for air travelers. According to the SFGate:
Airline passengers gain new rights this week including the ability to hold a reservation without payment — or cancel one with a full refund — within 24 hours of making the reservation, as long as it’s made at least a week before the departure date.
Some airlines were doing this voluntarily but now it’s a requirement. It’s one of several new regulations the U.S. Department of Transportation announced in April 2011 that take effect today.
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Best Western Wakulla Inn, Crawfordville, Fl.

The Best Western Plus Wakulla Inn isn't close to any typical Florida attractions--no amusement parks with thrill rides, no beaches lined with colorful umbrellas, no sparkling shopping malls with ritzy stores. It seems to sit in the middle of nowhere--and that's what makes it so appealing. It's located in a place where you can connect with a wilder, more natural Florida.

The hotel is actually in the middle of northern Florida's pristine Forgotten Coast, about 30 minutes outside Tallahassee. It's in an area where the vegetation grows thick, Spanish moss hangs from the trees, and alligators hang out in the marshy rivers.

The main draw to this area is Wakulla Springs State Park, the world's largest fresh water springs. Over 600,000 gallons of 70-degree water a minute flow through the three acre pool a minute. On a guided boat tour, you can explore the springs and take in the wildlife, including manatee, alligators, and all sorts of birds.

Back at the hotel you can enjoy clean, comfortable rooms and an outdoor swimming pool. Hot breakfast is included with the room.

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Spring break: Have you made plans?

My kids' spring break is just around the corner. We're planning a road trip through Washington state, visiting an aunt and uncle on Puget Sound and my son's best friend who recently moved to Seattle. We hope to check out the Museum of Flight and get at least one sunny day on the beach.

If you're still looking for something to do with your kids over Spring Break, here are three ideas:

Naples, Fl. This luxurious beach resort, two hours west of Miami, sits on the Gulf of Mexico. It's ritzy and glitzy and known as a vacation spot for wealthy Midwesterners. The waterfront is lined with over-the-top mansions and beach-goers wear fine linen cover ups and flip-flops studded with gems.

This is the perfect spot if you want to laze on the beach all day while your kids splash around and build sand castles. The sand is soft and sugary and the pale green waters as warm as a bathtub.

The Strand, the main drag, is loaded with shops and restaurants; we liked Bella Mia Amore for thin-crust blistery pizza and off the main drag Inka's Kitchen for outstanding Peruvian cuisine.

Bed down at the Best Western Naples Inn & Suites, surrounded by a jungle of palm trees, ferns, and hibiscus. Skinny pathways wind through the vegetation and lead to the two pretty swimming pools and hot tubs. Plus, kids have a blast hitting around balls at the miniature golf course.


Hannibal, Mo.
In this small port town 120 miles north of St. Louis, you can step back in time and explore the life of great American Mark Twin. At the Mark Twain Boyhood Home & Museum, you'll learn that Twain moved here when he was 4-years-old. His childhood and the town and the river it sits on served as inspiration for both Huck Finn and the Adventures of Tom Sawyer.

You'll also want explore the caves that are mentioned in many of Twain's books, hop aboard the Mark Twin Mississippi Riverboat, and play a round of miniature golf at Sawyer's Creek fun park. (For more things to do, go to visithannibal.com)

Hungry? The tower of onion rings and a frosty mug of homemade root beer at the Mark Twain Dinette across from museum will fill you up. Also, fried chicken, juicy burgers, and spicy chili.

The Best Western Plus On the River sites in the heart of town and you can walk to all the museums and restaurants. At the end of the day, kids will enjoy jumping into the swimming pool.

Santa Monica, Calif.
If you're looking for some Southern California sun, this beachy town makes a great homebase. It's close to all the attractions from Disneyland to Hollywood. But there's also plenty to do right here. Head for the Santa Monica Pier where you can ride the Ferris wheel and eat corn dogs (look for the original Hot Dog on a Stick). Or you just might want to park yourself on the white, sandy beach.

Need a place to stay? The Best Western Plus Gateway Hotel Santa Monica offers great value and clean, comfortable rooms in a town where you can easily find hotel rooms for $1000 a night.
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Majorca: Favorite photos from our trip

Our family finished 2011 with a week in Majorca, a mountainous, rugged island just an hour's flight from Madrid. On foot and by car, we explored this place known for its medieval villages, olive trees, and shockingly beautiful landscape. With our two kids, ages 7 and 8, we hiked to the top of Massanella, the island's highest peak; dined at an extraordinary tapas restaurant in mountain village of Deia; and stood in awe as we gazed up at La Palma's massive 800-year-old Gothic cathedral.

"How long did it take to build it, Mommy," my son asked.

"Oh, only 400 years."

Here are some photos from our trip.
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Eureka! I found the Camper shoes factory outlet in Mallorca!

I bought this pair of shoes at a boutique in Paris's trendy Marais district 15 years ago. They're now tattered and torn, but I still love their cherry-red color and the wavy strap across the top. Even now when I wear this old pair of shoes people say, "Wow! Those are so cute!"

At the time, I'd never heard of Campers, a shoe brand based in Mallorca, Spain. But after buying this pair I fell in love with the brand that produced comfortable, stylish, and sometimes even quirky shoes. They've become known for their "Twins" line of mismatched shoes. One pair might have half a broken heart pictured on the top, while another would featured the other half of the heart. I have some Campers boots with one zipping straight up to the top, while the other has a funky zipper that spirals around the boot.

I've always wondered whether their was an outlet store in Mallorca and on our recent trip to this Spanish island I was able to find out....

Hooray! Yes! There is a Camper factory outlet! It's in the industrial town of Inca in the center of the island (directions). The outlets like a mega-size Campers store, as usually the brand has tiny little stores in malls and downtown centers. There were hundreds of shoes and dozens in my size and all discounted. If you bought two, which I did, you got 20 percent off.

I was quite excited about my new shoes!

Yay! Campers! (Okay....I realize this is getting a bit lame....)
We weren't able to find a pair of Campers for my daughter at the main outlet. She's a bit picky. So we scoped out the island's second outlet at Festivalpark in Marratxi, which is close to Inca. There she found a cute gray pair with a little heal and bows.
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The most beautiful airport in the world

On our way from London to Mallorca, we had a three-hour layover at Madrid's Barajas International Airport. The building is covered in a glistening sea of undulating steel held into the air by colorfully painted supporting struts. It's absolutely spectacular. Even better, the place is filled with little cafes serving tapas, sangria, and frosty bottles of Mahou Negra.
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